How the Best Couples Keep Their Romantic Spark Alive

You’ve heard it said that it is better to give than to receive. This holds true even in the realm of physical intimacy. New research shows the rationality in having a servant’s attitude toward sexuality. Couples who put their spouse’s sexual needs and desires above their own seem to have the best sexual relationships. We’re not surprised.

“You don’t have to be a complete pushover and never expect your partner to satisfy your needs to have a sexually intimate relationship that withstands the test of time. On the other hand, this study shows us that it’s important not to keep a relationship scorecard, especially in the bedroom. Be willing to give more than you receive, and it’s possible that both of you will experience sexual happiness for many years to come.”

Read more at Psychology Today…

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About Lori Mitton

Lori Mitton is a licensed clinical psychotherapist (MA, LLP) specializing in marriage and family therapy. She is co-founder of Permanent Passionate Partnership.